Counting down

And so it goes. M's had her birthday at Kidzland on Saturday - I was rather pleased with how it went. Felt a little wierd that I didn't have to do anything for the party...except bake the birthday cake and cupcakes for the parents. M wanted cheesecake so I made her New York Style/Oreo's & Cream topping. Proved quite a hit with parents and kids (I was pleased!!)

Other than the cake, everything was handled by Kidzland including the lollibags. Being the control-freak that I am, I felt a little lost!! Anyway, M & her friends and J & his friends had a great time. I enjoyed catching up with some of the school mamas while our kids play too - going to miss them.

It's another 3 weeks(or thereabouts) till we go and seeing that the removalist will be the ones doing the packing, I am again feeling a little lost - I had cleared alot of our household stuff (read junk!) a few months back, during one of the verge pick ups. Apart from clearing the kitchen pantry and my container cupboard, I am pretty set to go. But not before we prepare the house for rental.

That and choosing which removalist to go with....

I chatted with friends, well intented people about us going. While they are really suppportive and encouraging, the issue of living in the kampung naturally tops the chat-chart. That and me homeschooling the kids, living in the discomfort of the heat of sabahan sun and of course, being around the in-laws. Yes, I am very apprehensive about all that but I am guessing I don't have a choice, really seeing that I have made this choice to leave Perth. Ya? I hear you!

On the ride home from another birthday party yesterday, I chatted with the Hub about the whole in-laws issue. I am glad that we are one-mind about them - from the get-go, we will set boundaries. When the boundaries are crossed, we let them know....Will see how that goes!

Seriously, its really going to be a hard life for me! Gosh, who am I kidding?? All that driving from the city to the kampung....week-in week-out....the sticky heat....all that comments about how fat I am...shit!!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

We are all creatures of survival...all the best and remember, life might be better in a new surrounding... just stay positive!

Aunty J said...

It sure is a huge step to make and a brave one too Cin...I take my hat off for you my dear friend...but whatever your reason(s) for the big move am sure it will be worth it...it may be hard initially but as you get the hang of it (hopefully soon..)am sure being the tough and survivor person that you are...you will go tru it with a breeze :) As for the in laws issues...it can be tricky but am glad both of u have talked abt it...So don't worry too okay...being nervous and scary is normal with your situation but am sure u will be okay...I have faith in you...buli ba kalo ko Cindy!! ;p Ba keep in touch kio...let me know when u r in town and we can catch up and that hopefully is really what we will be doing instead of me chasing after Ethan!! haha :)

Aunty J said...

btw.. yummy oh recipe2 kau nie...but can you please take pic(s) of them whenever u make them coz I wanna see how it turns out to be...supaya sia termotivate mau buat when i see the yummylicious food tht u prepare hehehe...si gundoot kan...tula gumuk uda haha...btw kau tiak gumuk la...kau nie hehe